How important is the Advent season?
I'm glad you asked, because I think it's a shame that so many Protestant denominations have forgotten about what's called the "liturgical year."What can families do to create a deeper meaning for Christmas?
It sounds boring, but it's just the calendar of the church that was established to help us live our lives around the life of Christ.
Advent was established by the church to be a four-Sunday period to have a time of introspection, a time of reflection, and even to some degree, a time of fasting.
Last week I was challenging my congregation about whether we really have taken seriously the idea that Jesus became flesh to redeem all flesh.
We always complain about the secularization of Christmas, and then we don't do anything to establish a greater meaning for that day.
One of the things I would suggest they do is to create some family rituals. "Rituals" sounds dead, but they aren't dead, they're just things we do to shape our lives.What about churches that won't have services on Christmas Sunday?
Years and years ago for Advent, my wife got a wreath that we stuck four candles in, and each Sunday after church we would light a candle and have a devotional reading.
Another thing families could do is something like what we're doing at Wesley Chapel, which is that we're all fasting one meal a week.
We're setting aside the money that we would spend on that meal, and we'll put that in an offering on Christmas day. It's a way to give of ourselves to remind us that God gave himself for us.
You've talked for years to people about trying to capture and reclaim your family's life by what you do together.
We are a time-enslaved people, enslaved to clocks and calendars. It's so easy to forget to just stop and sing a song together, or read a passage of Scripture.
Those are basically just pagan institutions.